My Conversation with Ram: Why "I Am the Loop" Changed How I Work with AI
Over the past few weeks, my life has felt like a rollercoaster of activity, emotions, broken promises, and throwaway comments that have blossomed into massive developments. I am sure I will unpack all of that in a future post, but I really wanted to take this morning and share a wonderful conversation I had recently.
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“I am the loop, not the human in the loop.”
That distinction, from a filmmaker friend, Gabe Michael, who writes The Creative Possibility on Substack, reframed how I think about AI — and it became the anchor for a conversation I had with Ramanathan Vythilingam 🏠 on the NCMT (Nanyang Center for Marketing and Technology) podcast, out of Nanyang Business School.
We got into what four decades in design — Apple, Disney, Gojek, and now RockPaperScissors — teaches you about adopting new tools without losing your judgment. A few threads we pulled on: why AI’s bidirectionality (the “call and response”) makes it fundamentally different from every creative tool that came before it.
In this episode, we talk about:
Why I use AI to find better questions rather than answers
How a senior Coca-Cola leader’s one question — “how did you know to ask that?” — became the seed for my book, To Question Is to Answer.
Why I’d rather chase a hallucination than dismiss it, since most of the time it’s pointing at a human truth rather than a data error
Why observable truths beat performance data when you’re trying to understand where a market is actually headed
Why the real risk of AI isn’t replacing junior talent, it’s senior people forgetting that experience, curiosity, and taste are the actual superpower.
If you’re a marketer, creative, or just AI-curious and tired of the “will it take my job” framing, this one’s for you.



Spreading the gospel, I love it! Great work Chris.